3 Ways to Bless Your Spouse Today

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With the upcoming birth of our first child, I’ve been spending a lot of time thinking about how the baby will affect my marriage.   This line of thinking got me wondering, what are some ways that we can branch out of our comfort zones and bless our spouses today?  I came up with these three [...]

The 72 Hour Club {A Man’s Perspective: The With}

The 72 Hour Club The With

I guess I’m on the hook to share “the with”.  Not that there’s any pressure or anything.  I’m only the husband of the 72 hour club creator and FLT author, Danielle,  and my answer is expected to fall in-line .  However, I think I will go in a different direction. There was a time in [...]

The 72 Hour Club {A Man’s Perspective: The Without}

The 72 Hour Club Without

I am a Christian man fully devoted to loving his wife as Christ loved the church – giving, serving, sacrificing, and completely committed to her best and highest good. To read about The 72 Hour Club and that Christian women are realizing the legitimacy of their husband’s sexual needs, as well as the personal benefits [...]

The 72 Hour Club: Why Sex Isn’t Just “For Him”

The 72 Hour Club Shelia

I’m so excited today to have my fellow marriage enthusiast and new friend, Shelia Wray Gregoire from To Love, Honor and Vacuum, sharing here on FancyLittleThings.  I had come across her blog several times while researching & reading for biblical views on sexual intimacy in marriage when I heard she would be coming to my MOPS group [...]

The 72 Hour Club: Could Improving Your Sex Life Improve Your Spiritual Life?

The 72 Hour Club Spiritual

Last week, I talked about the emotional intimacy that can be created from a lively sex life.  Today, I want to discuss the spiritual intimacy.  More specifically, could improving your sex life improve your spiritual life? When we think of sex with our spouse as a physical task, then it can begin to feel like a [...]

The 72 Hour Club: What is the REAL Benefit of a Thriving Sex Life?

The 72 Hour Club Real Benefit

Here is a recap of the 72 Hour Club posts so far… Could a Good Sex Life Change Your Marriage? – The idea…could marriages be transformed by the simple commitment to respect & respond to our husband’s God-given needs for sexual intimacy and to make this aspect of our marriages a priority? What to Do When [...]

The 72 Hour Club: What Changes are You Seeing?

The 72 Hour Club Changes

Once again, I’m breaking from my planned topic.  The rain is starting to fall and winds are starting to blow here where I am in NY.  I have to say, I just can’t seem to stay focused on writing today as Hurricane Sandy is coming ashore and is bound to affect our area starting this evening. [...]

The 72 Hour Club: What if the Desire for Sex is Missing?

The 72 Hour Club Desire Missing

This is one of those posts I didn’t plan to write. In fact, as I sit here with fingers on a keypad, I still don’t feel qualified to address this question, but I’ve felt the call to share what I can because I know this problem is out there, and it is killing marriages.

What do you do if the desire for sex in your marriage just isn’t there? Maybe it is you. Maybe it is your spouse. Either way, it can be devastated to a marriage.